parentinglife

In life there are always times where we ask ourselves “what if?”. I myself ask those two words. What if i hadn’t met my husband, moved here in America, got married and had a baby. I really don’t know but ill probably still be living with my mom, sister and step dad. Id be working at the same job I hate, the job that killed my confidence and reduced me to thinking I was stupid and incompetent. I’d still be single and looking for that one special person in my life and id still be enjoying the warm weather back home. Dwelling on all the “what ifs” in life is like your always in pause and always moving backward and never moving on. If i had not  married and had my baby i would never have experienced and feel what its like to be a wife, and a mother. I don’t want to live a life full of what ifs and regrets, i want to live a life that is full of optimism  and lesson in  my failure. I always make  conscious effort to think about my decisions and say to myself that if i fail it will be because i made the decision and no one else. I am still learning and i want to learn to live life to the fullest and just be happy with what i have.

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